Thursday, September 29, 2011

The 3-day Experience!!

Last week was an experience I almost can't describe.  My sister and I met in Washington, DC, on the 17th of September to get in some exploring, sightseeing, and some sister time before the 3-day walk.  The weather was beautiful and we saw lots of sights and had a lot of time together.  We met new friends and took lots of pictures!

Then came Friday morning, and the walk.  We gathered at 6 a.m. to start the walk.  There were the opening ceremonies, then we headed out.  Supported by my sister and countless others on the crew, we took off into Washington DC in a sea of pink.  That first day we walked all through Washington, past many of the sights we'd seen before - but this time just to walk past.  17+ miles later - raining all the way -  we arrived at a parking lot where school buses took us to camp.  My sister greeted me with open arms as I arrived at camp!  I checked mail call and I was surprised by several  birthday cards from friends - and a letter from my daughter that made me cry!!  Among a sea of pink pup tents (how in the heck do I find mine??) we tried to dry off, had showers and dinner and went to sleep. 

Saturday morning brought cloudy skies but no rain!  After breakfast, we headed out from camp.  This time we walked through Bethesda and other residential areas.  I found a lady walking about my pace and we walked together all day.  She happened to be from Columbia, Missouri - and her son was involved in band at several schools so we had things in common.  My sister had given me two buttons - one that blinked - that said "Happy Birthday" so everyone knew it was my birthday and I was serenaded several times during the day.  There were a lot of people out encouraging the walkers.  It seemed like every time it got a little hard, there were people to pick you up!  At lunch, I decided that my knee was hurting too bad to chance walking the rest of the way and I rode back to camp on the SAG bus.  Sharon was having problems with her feet and joined me.  After being greeted by my sister again as I walked into camp, I went to medical where they iced my knee and wrapped it.  That and Motrin did the trick.  I was afraid of pushing it too much and not being able to finish on Sunday - which I really wanted to do.  After a shower and dinner, and some shopping, I headed to the pink tent for much-needed rest.

Pam and I at the end of the second day

Sunday morning brought a little drizzle which ended before we hit the trail.  We were bused to the starting point in Bethesda, Maryland.  We walked through Bethesda, Chevy Chase, and ended our journey at the Washington Monument - 16+ miles later.  The bear that Chris, Kaitlyn, and Amanda had made me at Build-A-Bear joined me for the walk on Sunday.  I thought it was appropriate that Ka-C join me after she'd been with me through every radiation treatment!  It also gave me the feeling my kids were with me on the walk.  I got a lot of comments on her which gave me a chance to tell my story.  The walkers seemed to be in a more somber mood - we just wanted to get to the end of the walk and the closing ceremonies!  As I walked into the finish area, my sister again was looking for me.  We walked across the finish line together holding onto Ka-C as we crossed.  The rain held off and just as closing ceremonies started, the sun came out. 

Closing ceremonies were very emotional.  The walkers and crew went into the ceremony area first - surrounded by lots and lots of cheering spectators.  Then the survivors went in.  Everyone was cheering us and yelling - it was a huge party!  Things got very emotional as they applauded the walkers, crew, and survivors.  Everyone shared laughs, smiles, tears, hugs, and friendship.  My special moment was when I looked up and all of the walkers were holding up one shoe in tribute to the survivors.  All of my aches and pains disappeared for a few moments as we completed closing ceremonies!
Day 3 - me with Ka-C and 12 miles to go (more or less - mostly more!)

All in all, it was an experience I'll never forget.  I'm not sure whether or not I'll do it again, but I am so glad to have done it.  The time with my sister, the experience of being surrounded by supporters and other survivors and just being able to say "I did it!" are all unforgettable.  I met lots of new friends, shared lots of hugs and stories, walked more in three days than I ever thought I could, and raised over $2600 for a cause I have to believe in.  The entire walk raised over $7 million dollars!
I have my supporters to thank - all of you that donated money, that kept me in your thoughts and prayers (they were felt!!), and that encouraged me with words and smiles.  I love you all - thanks for giving me the priviledge of having this experience!

Shoes raised in tribute - beautiful sight!

Steph Goddard


Friday, September 16, 2011

Almost there!!!

It's been awhile - I've been busy!  The band directors keep me on my toes - and I really love working with them.  However, I have more important news to share today....

I LEAVE FOR DC TOMORROW!!  I've been really happy all week - now I'm getting nervous!  I'm glad the kids have a football game tonight so I have something to keep my mind off of it for awhile.  I'm pretty much packed, except for the last minute things.  I had to look for clothes this morning - everything's packed!  I've printed out my credentials, have to remember to get them off the printer.  Last minute things are going in the backpack.  I'm taking my good camera, but I had to buy a new "little" camera.  My old one died - kind of a blessing in disguise!  It was big for a "little" camera.  The new one is nice.  I've played with it some, it should be good for the walk. 

I have a friend in DC that I met through the 3-day web site and he and his girlfriend are as excited that my sister and I are coming to DC as we are.  He did the 3-day walk last year and is walking again this year.  He also worked on the crew in Boston this year, so has been giving both my sister and I good hints and tips.  He lives in DC and can't wait to show his town off.  I can't wait to meet him!  It's good to have a friend already there!

My fundraising goal has been surpassed - I raised over $2600 for breast cancer.  YEA!  A small drop in the bucket, I know, but a lot of drops eventually fill the bucket.  My treatment alone (surgery and radiation treatments) were well over $10,000, of which insurance picked up almost all of the discounted amounts. I consider myself very lucky to have the coverage I have.  Others aren't, and they're why I'm raising funds - for that and for research.  Thanks to all.

Speaking of thanks, I have a LOT of thanks to give out.  To my former co-workers at Blue Cross, who stood by me and held me up throughout my treatments and on my walking journey - my most heartfelt thanks.  You made me realize why God gave us friends on this earth.  I am so blessed to have you on my side!  To my church friends - you have supported me through everything and I thank you.  To my medical staff - you not only healed me, you've supported me on my journey and that means a lot to me.  And last but certainly not least - my family.  You were the ones I cried with, laughed with, walked with, and just were with.  You have allowed me to take on this journey and supported me with no reservations.  I now leave you for several days - to spend some much-needed time with my sister and to walk almost 60 miles for something affecting all of us. 

I will come back with memories and LOTS of pictures.  I can't wait to get there and get started!

Thank you ALL for your thoughts, prayers, and support as I continue this journey, thankful that I am able to.

Steffy